I’m a genderfluid queer sapphic womxn vers and D-leaning switch with a preference for other womxn and queer sapphics but will play with others if it’s a good fit. My pronouns are she/her, they/them, vae/vaem. Married poly/ENM. Soft FemDom ProDomme, somatic eroticism coach, kink space holder and educator. I’ve been in the poly lifestyle for 12 years and in the BDSM/Kink lifestyle personally for almost a decade and professionally since 2023.
🌷Currently seeking: non-sexual play virtually or in-person to explore my own submission and kinks (as I am a ProDomme and typically in the Dominant role in my personal life) with an experienced Domx who is a good fit for me and my needs right now. I require someone who is neurodivergent/PDA-friendly, trauma aware, and preferably LGBTQ+. Cis/Straight men proceed with low expectations, but you’re not completely off the table. Also open to the possibility of BDSM lovers, making friends in the community, and I am in the market for a service submissive.
❌DO NOT message me out the gate with sexual comments, or with a simple “hi”. I do not consent to sexual discourse out the gate with strangers, and I detest small talk and lack of effort to engage meaningfully. those who don’t respect this will get ignored, rejected, or blocked.
I desire Sacred D/s dynamics with conscious power exchange and holistic BDSM. My preference is for a soft/gentle/sensual/caregiver type dominant (but I am not a Little and not looking for a Daddy/Mommy Dom) but am also open to Primal, and some degree of sadist. For submissives I prefer devotional and service subs, and those seeking soft (not hardcore) S&M. Personally I’m a hedonistic exhibitionist and ecosexual and I incorporate that and sensuality heavily into my BDSM. I’m a mild sadist, and a rope switch for shibari. I am NOT a masochist and do not seek out *** and suffering physically or psychologically, but I am interested in exploring receiving mild to moderate impact and sensory play. I am not into providing heavy ***/***/S&M to submissives/bottoms.
🌷Other interests of mine as a Switch: human furniture, dollification/objectification, pony play, worship, slave training, high-protocol service, Leather identity and lifestyle, bootblacking, historical undergarments and lingerie fetish, being an erotic muse, erotic massage, bondage, cucking/hotwifing/being a “bull” for cucks, and others.
My vanilla interests include handcrafts, art, dance, herbalism, mutual aid, sustainable living, rewilding, writing, anthropology, historical reenactment/living history, and fighting imperialism. I also run a womxn and queer-centered kink + BDSM studio, teach and facilitate events, and create BDSM and fetish gear with my wife.